Hey Reader, I want you to know that designing your life intentionally isn’t a personality trait. It’s a skill. One we are not often taught, but one I believe that we can learn, practice and strengthen. Just like building muscle.

Most of us were never taught how to be intentional in our life or how to become the creators of our life. Often we inherit our lives, expectations, roles and generational patterns and curses. And then we wonder why they don’t fit anymore.

Over the years, through building a charity, stepping out in faith, navigating change, and now in motherhood. I’ve learned that clarity comes from slowing down, asking better questions and getting clear on what it is my heart really desires. This is the work I return to again and again.

Writing does this for me, it helps me take all my thoughts and feelings, get them onto paper, out of my head and refine from there. The practices I've learnt over the years I want to now share with other women who may find them useful.

Today, ask yourself this 'What in my life feels out of control?' Sometimes the simple act of free writing, without much thought creates enough space for us to look at our life from a different angle. My sister in the mess, you've got this!

Keep dreaming, keep believing.

With love always,

💛 Emma

P.s. Pop quiz, Reader!

(Kidding. No quiz. I'm not that cruel.)

But actually, go rogue for 5 minutes. Write whatever chaos is bouncing around your brain about what feels out of control.

Then hit reply with the weirdest, truest, or funniest line that appeared on the page.

Bonus: I'll reply back. It's like a penpal situation but with less glitter and more existential dread.